Thursday, April 23, 2020

Change



                One of my cousins once said to me that she enjoyed visiting my parents because when she walked into their house, it was the same as she remembered from staying with them during her senior year in high school. The furniture and its arrangement, the curtains, the carpet, and the essential items in each room never changed.  She felt secure and comfortable and always at home.
               As I reflected on her comment, I found myself in total agreement with her. Perhaps that was why I always looked forward to going “home” for our family visits.  I, too, felt secure and comfortable. I didn’t have to experience change.
               BUT, change does occur, and at no time in my lifetime is change more apparent than now with the invasion of the coronavirus (Covid-19) pandemic. Currently, former daily routines no longer exist. A new normal is developing. One that I don’t particularly like.  However, from this unexpected situation I have learned not to take my so called ordinary, basic lifestyle for granted like I have in the past.  You know, simple things, like buying groceries, getting a haircut, chatting with a neighbor, visiting our children and grandchildren and watching their various activities, attending church, dining in restaurants. So maybe, just maybe this unforeseen and dangerous virus has caused me to appreciate my customary, simple life in a way I haven’t before.
               I am confident that Covid-19 will eventually subside, but its effect will bring change in many areas of our lives. Change can be difficult, especially in those areas that make one feel safe and protected.  But then, change can be good, too. One’s attitude toward change contributes to that viewpoint. For myself, I need to regain my positive perspective and try to adapt to the possibilities of new opportunities once we are able to return to some normalcy.
               However, through all of life’s ups and downs, there remains one source of stability that never changes, God, our Heavenly Father. Through His word in the Scriptures and through personal experiences, I know I can depend on Him. During my life’s journey, I have faced rejection, heartbreaks, inappropriate sexual advances, unexpected health issues, loss of job, separation of family and friends, and the loss of many loved ones to death. All brought changes in my life, physically, socially, and mentally, BUT through them all God didn’t change. He remained constant by my side. He was there in His Spirit, comforting me, forgiving me, and loving me. AND He is with me (us) now. 
               Today, I can no longer find security and comfort at my parents’ home because they are no longer here. However, I CAN find security and comfort in my Father’s arms because He is always here. GOD does not change.

“For I am the LORD, I do not change” Malachi 3:6
“Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.” Hebrews 13:8